At this time I think his parents are transferring him to a different school. I would like to have a poster and information to help myself learn more and for my students. Thank you so much! <br /><br /><span>On 02/13/17, <b class="name">OSRHE EPAS PK-12 Counselor Discussion Board </b> <counselors@lists.onenet.net> wrote:</span><blockquote cite="mid:mailman.5051.1487017945.1898.counselors@lists.onenet.net" class="iwcQuote" style="border-left: 1px solid #00F; padding-left: 13px; margin-left: 0;" type="cite"><div class="mimepart text html"><span xmlns="http://www.w3.org/TR/REC-html40" xmlns:m="http://schemas.microsoft.com/office/2004/12/omml" xmlns:o="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" xmlns:v="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:vml" xmlns:w="urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:word"><p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">Not sure where you are located, but I use the Northwest Domestic Crisis Service as a resource. In fact, I have her coming tomorrow to do a presentation on Healthy Relationships. Do you have
an organization like that you could contact?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#0070C0">Definitely signs of an unhealthy dating relationship. There are resources for both parties to become better educated about what healthy dating relationships look like. But it
sounds like she definitely needs to get away from him. Is his family open to getting counseling for him? Does she need to seek legal action (protective order?)?<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#0070C0">T: 918-925-1004<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">I do not know what school district you work for, but here in the Tulsa area there are DVIS employees who do outreach. I know one of our Family and consumer science teacher has booked her to
come to the school every year to talk about teen violence and healthy relationships. Maybe you could make a suggestion to the mom to take her to a counselor at the local DVIS office, or call them and ask for resources.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif"">I know I keep the “warning signs you are in a unhealthy relationship” sign in my office, and many of my students have asked if they can have a copy or take a picture.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#002060">On Mon, Feb 13, 2017 at 2:09 PM, OSRHE EPAS PK-12 Counselor Discussion<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#002060">Board <counselors@lists.onenet.net> wrote:<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#002060">> Hello, I have a situation I would really appreciate & like your opinions & suggestions. We have 2 freshman who are dating, his dominate controlling behavior is now causing disruption
in the classrooms, she cries all the time, won't participate in any activities, doesn't fix her hair, clothes have changed negatively, always walks around with her head down, because he says mean things to her if anyone looks at her or vice versa. I have visited
with a few times trying to reach her, & teachers as well as myself are concerned of her safety of being physically abused once school is let out for the day. I have spoken with her mother she is trying to help her but doesn't know what to do, everything she
has tried has failed. My<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#002060">principal has spoken with the father, the boy has been suspended.<o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:"Arial","sans-serif";color:#002060">Please help with any suggestions Thank you all in advance!!<o:p></o:p></span></p>
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